Getting Attached to someone is also painful.. !!

As the pain was more I tried to be in quiet.. heavens.. and sat in silence.. As I was attached to my dears... I could not concentrate on the nature...I could not stand in silence... As I said being far away from loved ones is more painful than the physical pain.. I experienced this..

Attachments takes away peace of mind.. Then you are in pieces and fall prey to misery. Before I get scattered too much, I need to gather myself and rid my breath of the feverishness through surrender.... I do not notice this until it is too late..

Without fighting the attachments, observe the feverishness for that... and go to the cool place of silence within. We have to direct the attachment to the knowledge not to the people... That is what I observed ..

Feeling that everything is stagnant in my life, I realize that everything is changing, yet see there is something that is on-changing. I recognize the non-changing among the change are the wisest of all.

It is very painful when the person whom we are attached to chooses to leave us..stay far away from us.. How do you feel then?? I could say one thing here.. Whatever is yours will always be yours. Whatever is not yours will come for a little while and then go. Wake up! Sitting and crying being emotional is not going to help. Wake up and see this is the world and the world has its own metrics. See how you can move forward. That is what I can say .. :)

Then you will say .. wow! Life is much more than I thought it was..

Pain is never permanent .. !!

The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they can be quiet, alone with the heavens, nature and God. Because only then does one feel that all is as it should be and that God wishes to see people happy, in the middle of the simple beauty of nature.

Pain is never permanent ..

A wise man once sat in the audience & cracked a joke. All laughed like crazy.. After a moment he cracked the same joke again and a little less people laughed this time. He cracked the same joke again & again, when there was no laughter in the crowd, he smiled and said,

“When u can’t laugh on the same joke again & again, then why do u keep crying over the same thing over and over again…”

‘Lets move on’… :) :) .. Pain is never permanent .. You google yourself to find which makes you feel better.. which makes you more happier.. which makes you more stronger enough to overcome your pain.

I am in search of that and trying to find out some remedies to overcome the pain .. as such mine is physical.. so going out alone with out my loved ones.. Don’t know whether this will reduce my pain or will increase as being me far away from my loved ones.. Seems being far from the loved ones is more painful than the physical pain..

Life is made of Sweet Lies !!

Life has never promised u anything...
Nor has god...
 
But people did... 
    Some said they wil never leave u...Lie..
    Some said they wil love u till death...Lie..
    Some said u are the most precious one...Lie..
 
Life is made of such sweet Lies...
All that matters is, how u faced the time when u finally realized those were just lies...
 
You may ask "wudn't life be much better without these lies?"
But the fact is , The times u lived on those big lies were the only times u truely lived... !!!

But that is not the life.. Life is something not about finding yourself in these lies..its all about creating yourself.. and Live for the moments which you can't put into words...