Dealing rude behavior

Life has taught me so many things within very short span.. Now I am relaxed.. and feel like I am the most happiest person in the world. We just have to accept the things which are coming to your way.. then.. you will find your happiness in the same path. Whatever is happening to you.. it is all your destiny. Just accept it.

In your life... What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you? 

• Get upset
• React rudely back
• Get frustrated
• Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation
• Blame the person
• Preach to the person

I do get upset with the others rude behavior. None of these will in any way strengthened me. Then I searched for other options? Then I finally found some solutions to see rude behavior in the other way:

• It indicates the intensity of their commitment
  
• It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
• It projects the up-bringing of the person
• It indicates a behavioral pattern
• It shows lack of knowledge
• It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
• It shows you behavior to avoid
• It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
• It strengthens your mind
• It unconditions the love that you are

The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.  That is what I am following now.:)

Afraid to lose You ... !

When I first saw you, I was afraid to talk to you..
When I first talked to you, I was afraid to like you..
When I first liked you, I was afraid to love you..
Now that I love you I'm afraid to lose you.. !

For you ... Dear

I feel like I have no one to hear me..  my feelings... So I finally found a place where no one knows me.. but are sharing my thoughts , my feelings.. my worries... Finally I found something to get relaxed.. but not with loved ones.. but found new ones.. who loves me.. cares me..

Trying to get out of all these worries.. I want you to be happy all the times.. but could not make you happy.. moreover I am bothering you much..but will try my best to get rid of these things.. and make you happy.

If you are happy..  I will be the ecstatic person in the world. If you are worried... I will be the most distressing person in the world. We are in such a condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to our own...

Life has taught me that love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction... isn't it..!!

Which is more expensive - Your smile or your anger?

Do you get angry? If so, how often?

I can but it's very expensive....

Usually, we can give our anger freely and smile rarely as though a smile is costly.

In ignorance, anger is cheaper and a smile is costly.

In Knowledge, a smile is free like sun, air, and water and anger is extremely expensive like a diamond.

And in my view we have to make our Smile cheaper and anger expensive. And my Anger is too expensive..!!(I mean in other way .. :) ). But trying to reduce my anger and want to be free like wind. 

Why Me.... Its a part of Life !! Accept it !!

Arthur Ashe, the legendary Wimbledon player was dying of AIDS which he got due to infected blood he received during a heart surgery in 1983..
 

From world over, he received letters from his fans, one of which conveyed: "Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease"?
 

To this Arthur Ashe replied:

"The world over, 50 million  children start playing tennis, 5 million learn to play tennis, 500,000 learn professional tennis, 50,000 come to the circuit, 5000 reach the  grand slam, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals, when I was holding a cup I never asked GOD 'Why me?'. And today in pain I should not be asking GOD 'Why me?' "

Without Him...

Without him my nights don't pass..
Without him there is no peace for a moment..
Without him how do I live..
 

Without him I appease him..
Without him I tried to please him..
Without him my heart cheats me..

Without him, I reach him..
Without him, I hug him..
Without he being here, my heart is in him only..

The Most Beautiful Spot ....

There is a place you can come where everything is beautiful. Tourists go from place to place looking for beauty. They try to take beauty from that place. They only get tired and tanned. Yet the most beautiful spot anywhere is right here. When you come here, you find that wherever you are, everything is so beautiful. 

Where is this place? Don't look here and there. Where do you go? Its within you. 

When you come here, then any place is beautiful. Then wherever you go, you add beauty there. 

If you are unhappy, even the moon is irritating to you. Sweet things are nauseating, music is disturbing. 

When you are calm and centred inside, noise is musical, clouds are magical, rain is liquid sunshine. Book yourself on a trip to this most beautiful place in the universe. It goes on and on.