Friday, October 28, 2011

Dealing rude behavior

Life has taught me so many things within very short span.. Now I am relaxed.. and feel like I am the most happiest person in the world. We just have to accept the things which are coming to your way.. then.. you will find your happiness in the same path. Whatever is happening to you.. it is all your destiny. Just accept it.

In your life... What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you? 

  • Get upset
  • React rudely back
  • Get frustrated
  • Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation
  • Blame the person
  • Preach to the person

I do get upset with the others rude behavior. None of these will in any way strengthened me. Then I searched for other options? Then I finally found some solutions to see rude behavior in the other way:

  • It indicates the intensity of their commitment
  • It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
  • It projects the up-bringing of the person
  • It indicates a behavioral pattern
  • It shows lack of knowledge
  • It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
  • It shows you behavior to avoid
  • It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
  • It strengthens your mind
  • It unconditions the love that you are

The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.  That is what I am following now.:)

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