My Pain.. My Suffering...

Every pain and suffering is not permanent.. Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever. 

I want to be alone.. Being alone can be depressing.. If you let it.. I keep my aches and pains to myself.. I just listen and pray alot to keep me away from these aches and pains.. so that I can spend my time with my loved ones.. I can regularize my activities..

I couldn't even imagine how my loved ones are suffering because of me.. I don't want to give them my pain and suffering.. Hopefully everything will settle down soon..

I have a strong feeling that pain of mind is worse than pain of body. Probably I may be in this stage now.. I have to overcome the pain of mind.

Everything is important, and everything is unimportant. When you realize this fact, you have no more choices to make. That is why all these pains and aches are.. It might be important to your life, probably to bend you into better shape.. :)

Dealing rude behavior

Life has taught me so many things within very short span.. Now I am relaxed.. and feel like I am the most happiest person in the world. We just have to accept the things which are coming to your way.. then.. you will find your happiness in the same path. Whatever is happening to you.. it is all your destiny. Just accept it.

In your life... What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you? 

• Get upset
• React rudely back
• Get frustrated
• Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation
• Blame the person
• Preach to the person

I do get upset with the others rude behavior. None of these will in any way strengthened me. Then I searched for other options? Then I finally found some solutions to see rude behavior in the other way:

• It indicates the intensity of their commitment
  
• It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
• It projects the up-bringing of the person
• It indicates a behavioral pattern
• It shows lack of knowledge
• It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
• It shows you behavior to avoid
• It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
• It strengthens your mind
• It unconditions the love that you are

The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.  That is what I am following now.:)

Afraid to lose You ... !

When I first saw you, I was afraid to talk to you..
When I first talked to you, I was afraid to like you..
When I first liked you, I was afraid to love you..
Now that I love you I'm afraid to lose you.. !

For you ... Dear

I feel like I have no one to hear me..  my feelings... So I finally found a place where no one knows me.. but are sharing my thoughts , my feelings.. my worries... Finally I found something to get relaxed.. but not with loved ones.. but found new ones.. who loves me.. cares me..

Trying to get out of all these worries.. I want you to be happy all the times.. but could not make you happy.. moreover I am bothering you much..but will try my best to get rid of these things.. and make you happy.

If you are happy..  I will be the ecstatic person in the world. If you are worried... I will be the most distressing person in the world. We are in such a condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to our own...

Life has taught me that love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction... isn't it..!!

Which is more expensive - Your smile or your anger?

Do you get angry? If so, how often?

I can but it's very expensive....

Usually, we can give our anger freely and smile rarely as though a smile is costly.

In ignorance, anger is cheaper and a smile is costly.

In Knowledge, a smile is free like sun, air, and water and anger is extremely expensive like a diamond.

And in my view we have to make our Smile cheaper and anger expensive. And my Anger is too expensive..!!(I mean in other way .. :) ). But trying to reduce my anger and want to be free like wind.